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Where Would You Get Advice???

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We’re awash in an ocean of experts. You can’t flick on acable news or daytime-talk show without seeing some expert chatting about childpsychology, reducing personal debt, losing weight, the political climate,global warming…etc.
Whether It’s Black Diamond Skiing
or plumbing – sometimes you need an expert

Don’t get me wrong, I love a good expert!  When I used to be a news reporter, buildingand fostering a strong network of quality experts was an important part of thejob.  You needed someone to help placethe events of the day within a proper context for the news consumer at home.

If there was a huge intra-day drop in the stock market, itwas essential to get perspective from a financial investment expert to discusshow that type of event would impact the 401(K)s of Middle America.  Or if there was aviolent attack at a high school somewhere in the country, a bona fide newsangle was trying to line up an interview with a local child psychologist whomight offer tips to parents which might help the child work through thetragedy.
Again, I love a good expert!
But when you’re seeking advice regarding a potentiallylife-impacting decision what KIND of expert would you prefer?  While there’s a continuum of skill, abilityand knowledge that an expert possesses, the vast majority of experts either tend torely more on their personal “real-world” experience of having gone through thesituation themselves versus experts who may lack first-hand experience but havelearned from others through observation or through education.
Which type of expert are you more pre-disposed to seek ordoesn’t it matter?

I’m well aware that the only answer to that broad a questionis, “It depends on the situation as well as a variety of other factors,” – Iget that.  But generally speaking wouldyou prefer an expert that has a lot of head knowledge or hands-on knowledge?
For example, would you prefer a marriage counselor who has ahealthy marriage themselves or one who was divorced and knows that dimension aswell?  Would you want to learn weightloss tips from someone who’s lost a lot of pounds or from a perfectly fit trainerwho’s never had a problem with weight? If you’re just starting a business would want advice from someone whomay have run their own business and failed, or would you seek counsel from astart-up consultant who has helped dozens of businesses get off the ground yetlacks day-to-day operations experience?
I’m curious to hear what you think….. 
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  • Martha Giffen

    >The only "experts" that are worth their weight have "been there and done that." How can you teach someone something you haven't really done? Who wants a financial planner who doesn't have a nice nest-egg built up for himself already? Or an online coach who hasn't made a dime yet? Just doesn't make sense. BTW, first time here. Found you through the Mastermind Blogging group. Nice blog!

  • torcon

    >Great insight Martha and it's tough to refute your logical approach! Thanks for stopping by and taking the time to post!