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Sometimes it’s Personal and Not Business…

"This doesn't look like a budget meeting...."

Earlier this week my co-workers and wife conspired to have a baby shower for the pending delivery of our bouncing bundle of joy, Salvatore James Constantino (TJ for short) who’s due to arrive in a few short weeks.

The shower occurred at my work.

Hopefully, you can see from my expressions in the first three photos that I had completely bought their bogus cover story that I was to be attending a “budget meeting.”

This is why they don’t throw baby showers for guys, I was prepared to discuss year-to-date budget variances not sample tasty homemade hors d’oeuvres and open sundry baby accessories.

I was completely taken by surprise – and a bit overwhelmed by the kindness and generosity of my colleagues.

"...why is my wife at this budget meeting???"

It’s so easy to get locked into the day-to-day grind of the workplace that it’s sometimes easy to forget that this organization we work for is actually a collection of real people, with real emotions.

It meant a lot, since my wife and I are transplants to Maryland with no relatives in the area.

We always hear the cliche that, “It’s not personal – it’s just business” but this mini-moment for my family was a poignant reminder that sometimes it IS personal and not just a business.

My deepest and humblest thanks to these friends for a thoughtful gesture that took me by surprise – both literally and figuratively.

Question: When was the last time you were genuinely surprised by your friends and/or family?

"What the Heck??? I've been duped!!!"

 

The wife and me (after my shock and awe subsided)

 


This diaper "cake" was made by a guy in our regulatory group - amazing!

The shower eats were better than an NFL tailgate!

Party Panorama - Photo Credits to Shannon Boorstein

 

  • Mak

    Very cool…just like Tor!

  • Carolina HeartStrings

    Wow – a baby shower for a guy! Love it. What great friends (and wife). Congrats on the pending birth!

  • http://www.adjuvancy.com/wordpress Roy A. Ackerman, Ph.D., E.A.

    Thanks for sharing- and now you have all the diapers you need to dry off after your shower!

  • Cjohnson

    How cute and generous! I love the diaper cake – haven’t seen that one before.

  • Ella Venezia

    So great you shared your “Tor in shock” photos! Fun! And so thoughtful of your co-workers! Congratulations on your family’s upcoming delivery of your blessing!
    -Ella

  • Meredithmcnerney

    Awwwwww!!!!! Love this! How nice!!!

  • http://twitter.com/croyseniles Christine Niles

    I don’t miss too many things about being based in an office, but this is one of them. The sense of community is just priceless when people remember that they’re people and not job titles. So glad that you are blessed to work with such a great group!

  • Nan Porter

    The diaper cake is amazing!!! What a wonderful group of coworkers you have :)

    We were surprised with a 25th anniversary party a couple weeks before the actual date. Our daughter had organized most of it from her college dorm room out of state. We had absolutely no clue, and I remember it took quite a few minutes to switch gears mentally and try to keep my jaw up near my face – haha!

    A couple years ago we threw my dad a surprise 80th birthday party in Cincinnati. He was so shocked he thought I was a caterer who looked like his daughter, until he saw Jim standing near me.

    TJ will have many people who love him when he joins us. We’ll keep Kim and he is prayer for that big event <3

  • http://HumorOutcasts.com/ Donna Cavanagh

    that cake is amazing!