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Another 10 Troubling Texting Phrases Parents Must Know…

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Most kids are back to school this week. That means they’re getting a healthy dose of reading, writing and arithmetic.

It also means that they’re probably getting exposed to an unhealthy amount of texting and/or sex texting (a.k.a. sexting).

As I’ve written before, one of the biggest gaps in my knowledge as a parent happens to be texting phrases and instant messaging (IM) shortcuts that teens and preteens are using these days.

While neither of our school-age daughters (10 and eight respectively) currently have cell phones, I’m compelled to shore up my understanding regarding this disturbing trend before they face it directly.

A few months ago I wrote a post that listed 10 More Troubling Texting Phrases, which was a follow up to the original post I wrote listing 20 such phrases  last September.

Since writing those posts, I’ve continued to collect additional texting terms and IM phrases to equip parents to effectively protect their kids.

Here are the 10 latest that I’ve found which have been confirmed by the resources at NetLingo, again some of these are a bit shocking, some deal with bullying, meeting up and are not appropriate for younger readers:

 1. DIAF – Die in a Fire – coded threat 

2. DOC – Drug of Choice

3. I&I – Inebriation and Intercourse 

4. IMEZRU – I Am Easy Are You? 

5. NAZ – Name, Address, Zip Code (to you home) 

6. OMW – On My Way 

7. 182 – I Hate You – coded threat 

8. Banana – code for penis 

9. Kitty – code for vaginia

10. Zerg – to gang up on someone 

Again some of these terms are troubling, yet it’s the responsibility of parents to inform themselves about what their kids are likely to experience.

Question: Are there any other terms you’ve found that are not on this list? Are there other sites that you’ve found with relevant texting information that you’d like to share?

  • http://www.adjuvancy.com/wordpress Roy A. Ackerman, Ph.D., E.A.

    Hmm…
    First- I find it amazing that one can find a glossary for such abbreviations…
    Secondly- given that one can, why can’t we program phones to divert messages (or terminate them completely) when said codes arise?

    • http://www.thedailyretort.com/ TorConstantino

      That’s a great point – I think parents have to be vigilant regarding the technology they let their kids use. To be honest, I don’t think many parents realize a need to block certain texting phrases….

  • theromanticvineyard

    You’re right, Tor, these are disturbing. Raising teens was the season in my life where I felt completely helpless in knowing what to do. The good news was the fact that God knows all things. My prayer life grew considerably during this season – we had three teens and they all are grown and love the Lord–a miracle of His doing. What a service you are providing with these posts.

    • http://www.thedailyretort.com/ TorConstantino

      Thanks Debi, I’ve always believed that forewarned is better than not knowing…

  • http://www.toddliles.com/ Todd Liles

    My, my, my. I can relate, My sister pulled her daughter and son (10 and 12) from public school because of the bad influences. These are great kids. Really, but their peers where learning some of these code words, and sharing. She went to the expense of a private school in an attempt to shelter. I would do the same. She is also educating her children on the moral, life, and spiritual lessons.

  • kimbervanry

    Was just reading about the prevelance of people (many of them teens) using Instagram to share inappropriate pics. Coupled with that there is a private messaging service called Kik which is used in texts (ie, “IMEZRU? Kik me”), so you might look for use of “kik” in a text.
    Full piece here:
    http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/08/30/instagram-porn_n_1842761.html

  • http://simplystatedbusiness.com Cathy Miller

    Disturbing indeed, Tor. I never had children, but have plenty of nieces, nephews & grand-nieces/nephews. I like Roy’s idea-fight technology with technology. Parents have a tough job. In many homes, there is such a gap between online activities and the awareness of parents. Thank you for sharing an important message, Tor.

  • http://jonstolpe.com/ Jon Stolpe

    Thanks for the info, Tor. My daughter has a cell phone and texts with her friends. I don’t think she’s using any of these, but it’s important for parents to know what is out there.

  • albert

    No one actually uses these. This is just what old people think young people talk like.